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Cold Steel Ban Appeal (KoC)

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Cold Steel

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Hello, I have been given a chance to plead my case for quite possibly the last time. I implore everyone to drop any biases and explore my reformed behavior. I am not KingOfCowards talking to you right now. I am speaking to you as Michael. So, feel free to address me as such.

I want to begin this by stating all the things I have done wrong. Yes, I have stirred up controversy and garnered a bad reputation for myself. Yes, I did treat another member poorly. All of this evidence was previously weighed and I was unbanned after a ban of moderate length. Following this unban, I shamefully took advantage of Mendel's good faith in me and began to create bait posts with the intention of stirring up trouble. All of this resulted in a lengthy of argument that resulted in me declaring myself banned before staff re-perma'd me for violating the conditions of my ban.

I'm not a great person. I have flaws just like anyone else. Now, please, I implore you that none of these flaws are harmful ones that many people have accused me of. I am not going to address these because of their blatant mistruths.

But I want to come around and talk about what has happened right now. I've been playing on the server for a bit with a handful of staff knowing about it. They observed that if I am not being treated like a monster then I will not act in such a manner. I won't lash out, bait, or cause trouble. I have been playing alongside many of you that do not like me and have begun to form mutual acquaintanceships with you. Many of you thought the signs that I was among you would be obvious - that somehow I would only want to write obscene things, or do constant torture roleplay. No, I have generated many interesting interactions that people enjoyed. Maybe in hindsight you will say "Well I could see KoC doing that" but in the moment many people enjoyed roleplaying with me because their was no bias.

Furthermore, being in the discord under the name "Upside" has shown me a new side to all of you. I've come to understand that many of my problems were self-generated and NOT the fault of the community. We are able to discuss things like normal and make jokes. Sure, there's still toxic members, but I've come to see several of you as fun loving people (albeit a bit crass).

I implore everyone to look at what THIS person has done. Not KoC but Michael. Without the expectation to be KoC, I've been myself. I have not felt compelled to do anything other than try to help improve this community.

Look, I understand that I have tarnished my name. I've shared a bit too much about myself which has garnered a lot of negative attention, but in the end of the day I am trying to hold on to my favorite video game from the past 10 years. I fucked up and tarnished my reputation where I have become a persona non grata; however, please see that I want to co-exist. I don't want to make fucked up shit. I just want to be normal and our recent shared experiences have shown that.

To the admins who knew I was on the server, I ask you to stand by your decision. I have not let you guys down and abused that privilege like I did before. I have not attempted to troll or bait in any way.
 
The first time you got banned off here was after I've done some digging with the help of other members and we found out that you've doxed people off gmod servers, adding up with the weird posting, and weird private messages to other members. After the proof was brought to the CMS , you were questioned and you just hauled ass while acting like a Simpsons villain.

Nevertheless, the management thought about unbanning you in the first place without even making you appeal, basically with you saying "It was just a prank, I didn't do any of that, I just wanted to boast to X about doxing" which stirred quite some controversy. Not only that but after you were strictly told to keep a low profile, you started gore posting and purposely baiting others.

Honestly, I don't know why we would think that you've reformed yourself after you just made an alt account, came into a faction where you were blacklisted on your original account and furthermore, was about to be dewhitelisted in the span of 2 days.
 
The first time you got banned off here was after I've done some digging with the help of other members and we found out that you've doxed people off gmod servers, adding up with the weird posting, and weird private messages to other members. After the proof was brought to the CMS , you were questioned and you just hauled ass while acting like a Simpsons villain.

Nevertheless, the management thought about unbanning you in the first place without even making you appeal, basically with you saying "It was just a prank, I didn't do any of that, I just wanted to boast to X about doxing" which stirred quite some controversy. Not only that but after you were strictly told to keep a low profile, you started gore posting and purposely baiting others.

Honestly, I don't know why we would think that you've reformed yourself after you just made an alt account, came into a faction where you were blacklisted on your original account and furthermore, was about to be dewhitelisted in the span of 2 days.

Many of us had a chat about your poor faction management but that's a non-factor here. Most people think you are a poor CP role-player and do not run the faction well, so I do not really care.

Anyways, the point being is no dox ever occurred. Staff has already came to this conclusion. I have gotten along with the community because there was no pre-convinced notions.
 
Many of us had a chat about your poor faction management but that's a non-factor here. Most people think you are a poor CP role-player and do not run the faction well, so I do not really care.
Great start for your unban hombre.
Anyways, the point being is no dox ever occurred. Staff has already came to this conclusion. I have gotten along with the community because there was no pre-convinced notions.
You've gotten along, I see. I'm sure there will be a lot of people that will vouch for you here then.
 
Many of us had a chat about your poor faction management but that's a non-factor here. Most people think you are a poor CP role-player and do not run the faction well, so I do not really care.

How is this relevant to anything regarding your ban(s)?
 
Great start for your unban hombre.

You've gotten along, I see. I'm sure there will be a lot of people that will vouch for you here then.

Sorry, pride is my flaw.

We'll see. I want people to be honest. But I also want people to acknowledge when they did not know it was me then everything went swimmingly.
 
I also want people to acknowledge when they did not know it was me then everything went swimmingly.
This pretty much explains itself, but people were fine with RPing with you because they weren't aware of actions you had been called out for in the past. This is exactly the same thing DrPepper10 tried to use to defend himself on TerraNova.
 
Sorry, pride is my flaw.
Yes don't worry, I have that flaw as well but you're prideful over the wrong things.

But I also want people to acknowledge when they did not know it was me then everything went swimmingly.
Well, the handicapped woman with her tongue cut off and limbs removed sobbing was a bit unique and I was actually wondering if it was you by any chance.

I'll give you that. Your rp and ooc wasn't really that bad (yet) but we can't overlook the fact that some members still find you /disturbing/ to say the least. And this whole hiding behind alts helps you even less.
 
Yes don't worry, I have that flaw as well but you're prideful over the wrong things.


Well, the handicapped woman with her tongue cut off and limbs removed sobbing was a bit unique and I was actually wondering if it was you by any chance.

I'll give you that. Your rp and ooc wasn't really that bad (yet) but we can't overlook the fact that some members still find you /disturbing/ to say the least. And this whole hiding behind alts helps you even less.

Ah, I see what you did there by bringing that up. That was the result of an antlion attack. I'm not afraid to RP brutal things.

Anyways, can you at-least understand why I wanted to hide behind an alt so I could do things without bias? Is being "disturbing" really enough to bar someone as a person?
 
Anyways, can you at-least understand why I wanted to hide behind an alt so I could do things without bias? Is being "disturbing" really enough to bar someone as a person?
If society can...

Eitherway this ain't going anywhere from my regard anyways. I understand your fear, I understand the need to make an alt. This however does not excuse your past behavior, and I think I can talk for a lot of people here, at least in this regard, that we do not really want to house this.

Final -support
 
If society can...

With all due respect, disturbing and performing serious RP in a brutal dystopian setting go hand in hand. I am in my element here. What I have proven is that "disturbing" portion does not apply to myself when I am not being brigaded. You treat someone like a monster then they will react like one.
 
With all due respect, disturbing and performing serious RP in a brutal dystopian setting go hand in hand. I am in my element here. What I have proven is that "disturbing" portion does not apply to myself when I am not being brigaded. You treat someone like a monster then they will react like one.
Nobody forces you to be a 7/11 Joker either. The constant bullying was a result of your actions tho' isn't that correct? Or is it all just empty allegations with no proof?
 
Nobody forces you to be a 7/11 Joker either. The constant bullying was a result of your actions tho' isn't that correct?

Yes, but it is nigh impossible to reverse that. I wanted to alt (and some of the staff allowed this) because it's too damn late to be a normal person in everyone's eyes.

Look, to everyone who was GENUINELY disturbed by things I wrote, then I apologize. But everyone who brigaded because they thought it was funny... well... they know what I think about that.
 
Yes, but it is nigh impossible to reverse that. I wanted to alt (and some of the staff allowed this) because it's too damn late to be a normal person in everyone's eyes.

Look, to everyone who was GENUINELY disturbed by things I wrote, then I apologize. But everyone who brigaded because they thought it was funny... well... they know what I think about that.
Sorry, people just don't change in one month. I really don't think that you're that amazing 0.1% that just goes normal.
 
Yes, but it is nigh impossible to reverse that. I wanted to alt (and some of the staff allowed this) because it's too damn late to be a normal person in everyone's eyes.

Look, to everyone who was GENUINELY disturbed by things I wrote, then I apologize. But everyone who brigaded because they thought it was funny... well... they know what I think about that.
Name names.
 
Sorry, people just don't change in one month. I really don't think that's the case here either.

I never was what people I thought. I am not volatile and dangerous to the community. There's more falsehoods than truth floating around. My main fault was feeling the need to antagonize everyone and I have proven that I can hold back from that if everyone would just let me.
 
Well I can say the same about the cries about my faction being bad, but I still have to answer to them, don't I?

It's a bit of a false equivalence to compare a faction to someone's literal character as a person.
 
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